Are there other options?
The short answer- yes! Every family and child is different. Some families don’t feel comfortable with others caring for their children and wish to take on the caregiver role by themselves, while some children or adolescents thrive under a completely different roof than their families- like group homes or residential settings.
If you want to continue being a full-time caregiver but are frustrated with that work being unpaid, you may be able to qualify for payments. Some state Medicaid programs and long-term insurance companies allow family members to become paid caregivers. You can contact your state’s Medicaid office or insurance agent to learn more. Waiver funding can also pay parents. First, your child must receive certification of disability. Depending on the type of waiver, disability certifications may come through Social Security, State Medical Review Team, or your doctor. Then you can apply for Medical Assistance (MA) Disability through your county or online. Once you have been approved you can schedule a MN Choice Assessment online or through your county. A MN Choice Assessor will come to your home to evaluate whether your child qualifies for services. After you will receive a written assessment summary from the county and will be assigned a contact person to review and develop a community support plan (Pacer Center, n.d.). This can also determine whether your child qualifies for a personal care assistant (PCA), who would come to your home and help your child with activities of daily living such as grooming, dressing, bathing, transferring, mobility, positioning, eating, and toileting. If you already have a case manager/social worker, talk to them about how you can explore your waiver funding options or PCA options.
Additionally, talk to your provider about any concerns you have being a full-time caregiver, join support groups in-person or online, and lean on other family or friends for help when needed. We want to express that there is no right or wrong answer when it comes to decisions about caring for your child. Doing what’s best for you and your family is what’s most important.
References
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Family Caregiver Alliance. (2016). Caregiver statistics: demographics. https://www.caregiver.org/resource/caregiver-statistics-demographics/
Minnesota Department of Human Services. (2023). Respite. https://www.dhs.state.mn.us/main/idcplg?IdcService=GET_DYNAMIC_CONVERSION&RevisionSelectionMethod=LatestReleased&dDocName=ID_002203
Minnesota Department of Human Services. (2022). Children’s mental health respite care services. https://mn.gov/dhs/partners-and-providers/policies-procedures/childrens-mental-health/respite-care/
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